Not Coping

Hi @tyme

How are you today?

I’m at work and I’m on with the same colleague from Tuesday and Wednesday. I’m already feeling a shift in my mood and I’ve got to but up with it for another 4 hours.

I just know I’m going to cry when I get home her passive aggressive behavior is just so bad and really affecting me.

Hey @Birdofparadise8 ! I'm here.

Glad the ballet was good yesterday.

As for working, does this colleague do it only to you, or everyone? Has anyone every spoken to her?

With time and age, I don't put up with things anymore. I usually pull people aside and ask if there's an issue, and if i've don't something wrong.

Of course, I'm not expecting you to do it if you don't feel able, but it just seems so unfair that you have to work in a space that feels emotionally unsafe.

Thoughts?

Yea it was so good. Mum is on her way home now @tyme.

Ive spoken to the NUM and my team leader so it’s up to them to follow it up.

I don’t think I would be able to speak to her about it I try when she just mentions one thing and I get shot down in flames.

Yeah, it's better management handles it @Birdofparadise8 Take a big breath and put your superhero pose on. You don't need to be intimidated 🙂

Hahahah superhero pose that’s a good one.

Mmm I’ll cope till 10pm once I finish and then go home and cry @tyme

You should have seen me on Tuesday it was terrible.

I’ll talk soon just back from break.

I’ll probably reply to you around 9 when I get my break again @tyme

The Superhero pose is a real thing! @Birdofparadise8 Look at the research https://dash.harvard.edu/handle/1/9547823

I don’t disagree I’ll give it a go @tyme

Speak soon @Birdofparadise8

Hello @tyme