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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor08 Nov 2022, 6:51 pm AEDT

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Kyle1Senior Contributor24 May 2023, 4:59 pm AEST

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hi @Birdofparadise8 .

Thank you.

I'm having social issues. There seems something weird and confuddling in the air. The fickle fates messing with the poor, meager mortals, and all that..

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor24 May 2023, 5:01 pm AEST

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Oh okay @Kyle1

Social issues with people?

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tymeModerator24 May 2023, 7:26 pm AEST

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Hey @Birdofparadise8 @Kyle1 - I share that feeling tonight....

For me, yes people. I have this bit of sadness tonight (which is totally okay) because I go all out to help people and in return, I'm pushed away and told no one was helpful - that cuts. Of course I'm not talking about anyone here. This is in real life.

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Kyle1Senior Contributor24 May 2023, 7:33 pm AEST

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yeah... I think some people like that @tyme might be deeply wounded or scarred. (Or else just self absorbed and toxic)...

It can be hard and take some time to regain perspective when we bump up against such people, huh...

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor24 May 2023, 7:40 pm AEST

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Are you sad @tyme I’m sorry.

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tymeModerator24 May 2023, 8:12 pm AEST

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I do have sadness in my heart - yes, I'm not going to lie @Birdofparadise8 . But think I'm more VERY disappointed. @Kyle1

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor24 May 2023, 8:14 pm AEST

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Oh that's tough I'm sorry @tyme.

People can be very annoying.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor24 May 2023, 8:16 pm AEST

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Awww @tyme , @Birdofparadise8 , @Kyle1 ❤️❤️❤️

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Kyle1Senior Contributor24 May 2023, 8:26 pm AEST

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the most perplexing is seeing niceties in the mix, @Shaz51 ...

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tymeModerator24 May 2023, 8:26 pm AEST

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I'm sharing how I feel, not for sympathy, but more so to remind you the I'm human. @Birdofparadise8 . Even though I'm 'recovered', it doesn't mean I do not feel.

I have been hurt by this incident, but I will detach from it tonight and start afresh tomorrow. It doesn't take the hurt away, but it allows me to cope.

I hope you also find a way to manage hurt. That's life I guess 🙂

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