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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I have been crying and being sad @tyme.

The police called me yesterday.

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tymeModerator

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I'm sorry to hear that. @Birdofparadise8 . It sounds like people are concerned about you.

Would you consider going back home to your parents?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Definitely not going home @tyme

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I have to call KHL by 11 pm and if I don't, they will call police @tyme

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tymeModerator

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@Birdofparadise8 , are you going to phone KHL and let them know how you are?

Alternatively, would you like to call emergency services and go in?

If you have private health insurance, you may be able to have a planned admission.

Thoughts?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Yeah, I'll call them soon.

I don't want to go to hospital.

Not going private. I work there @tyme. I don't need work to know about my MH.

Planned admission to the psych ward? I don't want that.

The only reason I would go is if I do something.

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tymeModerator

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Fair enough @Birdofparadise8 .

It does take time and a lot of effort to really resist the unhelpful thoughts. I hope you find the supports you need in terms of an ongoing counsellor/psychologist etc.

Recovery is possible. You just need a few supports and guidance. I can say that because I've been there.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Thank you @tyme

I'll just have to see how I go or the next few hours.

It's really hard because I want to do it and don't want to at the same time and I'm not sure what part of me is stronger right now.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8, sorry didn’t mean to leave you deserted, I need some air after a hard conversation I had with someone. I hope the KHL call does help you settle down a bit, it’s good to be able to talk through things. Remember you do matter 💖🫂

Hi @tyme, nice to see you 🙂. I hope you do enjoy Mary Poppins

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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That's okay, @creative_writer, don't worry.

I hope you're feeling okay, too and thank you.

I just got in the queue, and it looks like a long wait time is ahead of me @tyme @creative_writer

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