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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Hello @tyme

How was your night?

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Hello @tyme

I'm feeling very lonely today. And there's nothing can be done about it. Doesn't that just suck!?

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We can be lonely together @Kyle1.

I'm crying right now.

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I had a good sleep 🙂 @Birdofparadise8 Thanks for asking. It's a lovely sunny day here where I am. I might go for a walk a little later.

As for being lonely @Kyle1 , I can't say I'm lonely. I've got my forums family!

Hugs to you both

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Ditto... @Birdofparadise8

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You need to listen to this song @tyme.

Let me know what you think?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MoN9ql6Yymw

With loneliness, there is wanting to be alone, but not wanting to be lonely, feeling alone and being in a room full of people and still feeling utterly alone.

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I just left a bustling coffee shop and it brought me undone... Kind of strange, considering how I spoke of finding positive occasions at cafe's just this morning...

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Did it make you upset @Kyle1

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It's a very deep song @Birdofparadise8 - possibly reflective of how you are feeling?

It's actually not uncommon that people find comfort in listening to such songs when feeling down. It provides validation and it makes one feel less alone. I know I have also done it. However, I also found that after I listen to them, I don't actually feel better because it hasn't given me hope - it merely reminds me of how rubbish I was feeling? Do you think so?

Would you challenge yourself to take the lyrics and write the opposite? A story of hope? Probably @creative_writer would be able to.

Hi@Eve7 !

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yes. And I suddenly feel tired. And I have a job to go to at 1pm. I don't even know what it is, but said yes to it last night to help another friend out. And I'm as anxious as can be, but just want to... I don't know... I want something different... without expectations. Without demands. Warmth? Maybe

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