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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor08 Nov 2022, 6:51 pm AEDT

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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PaperdaisySenior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 6:38 pm AEDT

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Well that's great about work @Birdofparadise8

Now, what can you do for self care and to look after yourself tonight? I like to have a big glass of water and watch a good show.. anything you're watching right now?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 6:43 pm AEDT

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Yeah but I have so much study I need to do that I really couldn’t be bothered to do I just don’t know if I can be there emotionally to study. Like right now I’m in the kitchen that I share with everyone and I’m trying to not cry @Paperdaisy

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PaperdaisySenior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 6:54 pm AEDT

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I'm sorry you're feeling that way @Birdofparadise8 it's exhausting feeling that way when you just want to get on with things. I've been there. Crying can be cathartic too, and there's a place for that.. whatever you feel you need in the moment. Sitting with you 🤗

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 6:55 pm AEDT

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Thank you @Paperdaisy

I can’t really cry in front of everyone so I’ll wait till I got back to my room.

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PaperdaisySenior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 7:03 pm AEDT

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If you cried in front of others @Birdofparadise8 they might offer their support. You deserve support @Birdofparadise8 take care of you ok 😊

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 7:10 pm AEDT

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I don't know them, so I think I'll pass on that. I don't need other teenage judgment right now.

So I am sitting down eating dinner alone @Paperdaisy

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PaperdaisySenior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 7:16 pm AEDT

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You're not alone @Birdofparadise8 💝

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 7:17 pm AEDT

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I feel so utterly alone sorry to say @Paperdaisy

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Shaz51Senior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 7:20 pm AEDT

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Hugs my @Birdofparadise8 , i amm feeling lonely right now too @Paperdaisy , @Eve7 , @tyme , @creative_writer , but we have each other

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 7:22 pm AEDT

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We can be lonely together, I guess @Shaz51.

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