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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor08 Nov 2022, 6:51 pm AEDT

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Shaz51Senior Contributor18 Mar 2023, 4:37 pm AEDT

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I will now my @Kyle1 , how are you going today

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Kyle1Senior Contributor18 Mar 2023, 4:47 pm AEDT

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@Shaz51

mixed... awfully sad this morning, and grief stricken.

The afternoon has turned positive.

I can't make sense of the contrast but I'm no stranger to it these days, either.

I woke remembering I now have a brain tumor. Right at the time where my marriage has died, and I am without my garden and pets and home. And contending in court. And now jobless.

I feel so very lonely these days.

By noon I had started to spend time with my children and venture down town, and back again to play... it was heart warming!

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creative_writerSenior Contributor18 Mar 2023, 5:28 pm AEDT

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@Birdofparadise8, please take care. I know I’m going to sound like the parent friend, but you really need regular meals for uni. I hope you have had something to eat by now.

@Kyle1, sounds lovely. I’m sorry to hear about the brain tumour, court thing and your marriage. I know it’s not the same as having people around physically, we are here for you 💗

Hi lovely @Shaz51, I hope you have some lovely downtime, you deserve it.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor18 Mar 2023, 5:34 pm AEDT

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sounds lovely. I’m sorry to hear about the brain tumour, court thing and your marriage. I know it’s not the same as having people around physically, we are here for you ----- ohh totally agree @Kyle1 with @creative_writer xxxxx

Thanks @creative_writer , I had a very teary day through the week @tyme , @Captain24 , @Birdofparadise8

I dont know why and it made my husband very upset seeing me upset

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Eve7Senior Contributor18 Mar 2023, 5:41 pm AEDT

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Sending lots of love and support to all of you @Shaz51 @Birdofparadise8 @creative_writer @Kyle1 @Captain24 and assuring you all that I am by your side in this journey.

💜💚💜

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Shaz51Senior Contributor18 Mar 2023, 5:42 pm AEDT

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hello and hugs @Eve7 ❤️

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor18 Mar 2023, 5:45 pm AEDT

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Oh no, I hope you're okay @Shaz51

Yeah, I am having spaghetti bolognese for dinner @creative_writer

I don't know what's wrong with me, but the okayness has disappeared I'm now crying and feel like I am going into a spiral @creative_writer, @Shaz51, @Kyle1, @Eve7.

Hey @Eve7 how are you going?

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Shaz51Senior Contributor18 Mar 2023, 5:55 pm AEDT