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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@tyme, not really. It’s only aggravating me further. I’m getting closer to breaking point, but I deserve it anyways.

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BowSenior Contributor

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Market was real good @tyme we did well. Always nice hearing shoppers compliment our hard work. And there was a lady there doing kids colouring in and yoga, so my daughter was entertained the whole time! No nagging about being hungry, bored or asking how much longer.

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BowSenior Contributor

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That be some pretty nasty sounding talk to yourself @creative_writer noone deserve getting to breaking point

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tymeModerator

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I also feel like it's happened for a reason @Birdofparadise8 . I hear it was a shock for you (and most likely your dad too!), but perhaps it was what was to happen.

Please don't lose sleep over it. It's happened. I also believe, as parents, they would have sensed something was going on. Parents have clear intuition.

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tymeModerator

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OOOOOoooo @Bow ! That's so LOVELY!

Sounds like it was so good. Your baby girl must be so tired now. How long did you stay for?

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Bow, I feel so useless. I keep getting triggered and I feel ashamed of that.

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tymeModerator

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@creative_writer , getting triggered is not the issue. Being triggered is a human response. Are you saying you are not human?

It is about what you do after being triggered.

What are some strategies you have in place @creative_writer ?

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BowSenior Contributor

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Left the house at 7:30 and home by 12:30 @tyme unpacked the car and then I crashed into bed and that’s where I spent all afternoon. Was on my feet the whole time.

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tymeModerator

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How was the weather for you @Bow ?

I always thought you were in Melb - now I read you live in Syd, not Melb?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I won't lose sleep over it. I may of lied and said I am okay when I'm not @tyme.

My mum did, but dad didn't.

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