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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Lol.. slept in the morning. I had yet another sleepover with my niece and of course I didn't sleep. So in the morning, I went back to my bed to sleep. @Birdofparadise8 .

I don't know why I do it to myself, but then again, they are only young once.

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Because you are caring , loving, amazing, awesome, and you are making wonderful memories for your niece and for you @tyme 🥰

How old are you ??

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Hey @creative_writer , just catching up with everything.

I've got my niece nephew next to me peeling apples to make stewed apples. Then my nephew cut himself so he was crying. I don't think it really hurt. He was more afraid of the bl****d.

Peeling apples is good for their concentration lol. When I peel things, I don't normally let them help, but today, I just let them.

Im not really fussed though. I warn them of safety, and if they do hurt themselves, they will learn. I'm sitting next to them anyway so it's not that the will be hurt severely.

I think in life, people cotton-ball their kids too much so that they end up not being able to do anything practical.

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I’m sure she enjoyed herself though.

Have a nap later if your tired @tyme

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I'm in my late 30s @Shaz51 - I don't think I want my own children. I'm so happy in life as I am.

I'm not against it, but I'm not for it either.

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Everyone to their own choices my @tyme

I could never have children of my own

So I did private child care

And I became a step mum of 4 😁

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@tyme finding balance can be hard. I was cotton balled as a child. From the sounds of things, you are already half a parent to your niece and nephew.

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If I was to have kids I wouldn’t want to be taking all the meds I am, I would have to be really stable

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Yeah, I do do a lot with the kids @creative_writer @Birdofparadise8 @Shaz51 .

We don't have parents, in laws or relos to help, so I feel I owe it to my sister. It's not easy with 3 young ones. Husband is so lovely, but very limited with what he is able to do.

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That is nice of you @tyme

I am a bit young to say yet what I want to do lol.

What are you doing for dinner I am having enchiladas.

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