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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Can you get a taller gate @ArraDreaming

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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Nah he locks them he’s already worked it out @Birdofparadise8 then climbs up onto the laundry bench (im assuming) to unlock the top lock we have put on
Hence I’m on the floor hopedully a deterrent or I can at least wake up to him getting up in the night
Only happened twice so might just be something that goes away lol

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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wait it's it happening in his bedroom @ArraDreaming

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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nah he gets up in the night goes to the laundry unlocks the gate we have on the laundry then gets up unlocks the doors goes outside
I think @Birdofparadise8

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Can you have a gate in his room so he doesn't get to the laundry @ArraDreaming

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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He know how to unlock them anyway lol

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Oh gosh that sounds like a tricky situation @ArraDreaming

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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Yeah…. like I said little masterminds hahaha @Birdofparadise8 hopefully doesn’t last too long

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 what's happening princess 👸?

I see you're not feeling well at the moment. Is there anything you do to self soothe when you're in this situation? How about a book or TV show, will that help you sweetie? I wish I could message you more frequently 😳

Thinking of you 💙 🫂 💐 👑 👸

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I hope so @ArraDreaming

Right now, my stomach is so sore. It's been sore all day. @ENKELI

Self-soothing won't hurt with this pain, but for the emotional part, I guess.

I'm just worried I've started having so SI.

I hope we can chat tonight if you're around.

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