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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Yes and abandoment @ENKELI

I'm sorry, that I'm making it about myself. I'm just really sad about all this.

Yes, @ArraDreaming is great.

Cloudy here, too, Enkeli. What temp is cold for you?

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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@ENKELI @Birdofparadise8 I am in regional Victoria… about an 1hr from Melbourne
Freezing here

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@ArraDreaming i can imagine! I love Victoria but it does get cold! Stay warm my friend.

Do you have a good heating system in the house?

Hope Mrs A and the Junior As are all keeping well too 😊

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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@ENKELI we have electric heaters on the wall of each bedroom but we have them off and unplugged most of the time, pretty dangerous with the kids but we have a split system and a wood fire
Yeah, going ok, Mrs a is not feeling very well today we are just having a home day

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 I didn't even consider that you were making it about yourself princess.

At the moment I am running hot due to hormonal changes so anything under 24 is cold for me.

It's 19 here at the moment and I'm wearing a short sleeve shirt. So long as my feet are warm I'm good.

The extra padding around my middle also helps warm me!

Perth really doesn't get that cold I don't think.

What are you doing at the moment?

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@ArraDreaming electric heaters are definitely not safe with little ones.

I love wood fires.

Sorry to hear Mrs A is not well, hope she feels better soon.

It's always nice to have a relaxing day, enjoy!

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Okay, that's good then, thank you.

Wow, 24 is just nice, hahaha.

Do you struggle when it's really hot?

I'm just doing some calculus on Khan Academy.

I need to wash up and vacuum, so once I do a couple more problems, I will.

What are you doing? @ENKELI

Sorry about Mrs Arra @ArraDreaming I hope she feels better soon.

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 I'm sorting out my costume jewellery and I'm going to make some weeknight dinners. I also want to make sammiches for work lunch. I have to stop buying my lunch to save money.

I'm trying to watch Disney+ through my Foxtel box but it's not wanting to connect to the internet. Grrr! I wanted to watch this again 😁

 

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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You have a bit to do then @ENKELI

Is your mum coming over today?

Hmm can you watch Disney through your TV? Is it a Smart tv with the apps on it?

TS I assume.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Let's play it at the same time @ENKELI

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