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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor08 Nov 2022, 6:51 pm AEDT

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor28 May 2024, 9:39 pm AEST

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Dogs got the zoomies @Jynx

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor28 May 2024, 9:41 pm AEST

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Oh man my short time in share houses absolutely messed with my sleep schedule so I get you
I remember one house I was woken up probably 4 times a night @Birdofparadise8 do people not realise they don’t have to stomp at 2am through the house

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor28 May 2024, 9:44 pm AEST

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Yes, they stay up quite late compared to my sleep schedule.

I really wish I could move out but I can't find rent for $300 like I am paying at uni now.

4 times a night is rough. I hope you didn't stay long. @ArraDreaming

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor28 May 2024, 9:46 pm AEST

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I lived in a few of them @Birdofparadise8 hated it but had to do it
I think it’s a right of passage
Nah wouldn’t get anything for $300 here either, maybe a small unit at the high 300s but more likely to be $400 or more. We just got a rent increase on our house.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor28 May 2024, 9:49 pm AEST

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Yes, anything decent is $400 @ArraDreaming

I have at least 6 years of study left, if not longer.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor28 May 2024, 9:51 pm AEST

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Houses are $500-650 here @Birdofparadise8

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor28 May 2024, 9:53 pm AEST

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That is what a one bed apartment costs here ten min out of CBD @ArraDreaming

That is pretty fancy-looking.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor28 May 2024, 9:54 pm AEST

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For a one bedder? @Birdofparadise8 jeepers

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor28 May 2024, 9:57 pm AEST

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Yes one bed @ArraDreaming

Very tiny.

Hobart is a lot cheaper I could have a whole house ahahha.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor28 May 2024, 9:58 pm AEST

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Wow @Birdofparadise8 our old house they put it out by $65 a week once we moved out

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