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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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I don't want to get you in trouble but I don't want things to escalate @ArraDreaming

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@Birdofparadise8 @ArraDreaming @ENKELI

Hey all, thanks for the tag. I believe there's been some confusion and miscommunication, but I also agree that there's no call for all-caps, or for rudeness. @ArraDreaming it might be a good time for you to step away from the forums.

I am always here to support you all, and if anyone is feeling heightened or distressed and wants a check in email, more than happy to oblige. Tag me, or just email us directly via team@saneforums.org.

Be good to each other.

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Fine written in caps isn’t a big deal

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Hey @Birdofparadise8

Awesome work on the interview, hope its promising for you.

Sending hugs💓 @Birdofparadise8 @ENKELI @Shaz51

I'm off to bed... good night all

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@Birdofparadise8 I know! I am going to have to satisfy myself with checking in at lunch time and after work!

I really wanted a job that starts and finishes early but this role is reliant on delivery to mine sites. Each mine site has a set time for trucks to come in and if there are time delays the trucks are often turned away and may have to wait up to a week until they can re enter the site.

At my last job the runs or trips I handled all left early except for 1 so I got to start at 7am. Then when I changed roles I started at 6.30am.

I'm sure I'll get used to it but I'm definitely going to miss chatting with you.

Sorry it took so long to reply, I was heating dinner up 😊

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@Blackbird11 nighty night, hugs and blessings 🤗💕

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Thank you @Jynx

Hey @Blackbird11, thank you. Have a good sleep.

All good @ENKELI. Yes, I will, too, a lot. I was so happy you got the job, but I'm sad I won't get to talk to you as much. There are also the weekends, though. It means a lot that you will miss me too. It warms my heart, @ENKELI. 🫂🥰🌸💖

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@Birdofparadise8 I don't know what the protocol will be regarding phone usage at work, most places I've worked I wasn't allowed to have my phone out which is fair enough. Once I'm settled and know what I'm doing if I'm able to I'll reach out to you. Sometimes I wish we could swap email addresses so we could chat but I know that's a security and safety risk.

I was just telling bro that I'll miss you tomorrow. He said "well you better make sure you get home early so you can chat!"

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I know I wish we could as well email would be good. I understand about no phones it's all good. Aww you are making me cry now in a good way @ENKELI

I will be thinking of you and I'll check in in the afternoon to see how your first day went.

I'm going to go to bed now, but have a good night and get plenty of sleep. You will crush this and do an amazing job.

Night night from your princess 👸🏼👑❤️🌸

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@Birdofparadise8 night my beautiful princess,

Have an awesome day. I'll check in at lunch time and then after.

Much love and blessings princess

💕💐👑

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