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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor08 Nov 2022, 6:51 pm AEDT

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor25 Apr 2024, 9:17 pm AEST

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Okay, that will be nice @ArraDreaming

Do they like going to the park?

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor25 Apr 2024, 9:20 pm AEST

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They do the baby actually had her first swing on the swings this morning at the playground @Birdofparadise8 she’s getting so big so fast what happened to our tiny newborn 🫣

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor25 Apr 2024, 9:24 pm AEST

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Aww, and next you know it, she will be 18 @ArraDreaming

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor25 Apr 2024, 9:29 pm AEST

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now that’s a scary thought @Birdofparadise8 nah having little kids is lots of fun but they all have something different like the oldest kid and I can have full blown conversations now which 🤯

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor25 Apr 2024, 9:30 pm AEST

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Yeah, I can only imagine @ArraDreaming

I can't wait to have children.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor25 Apr 2024, 9:32 pm AEST

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how many would you like @Birdofparadise8

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor25 Apr 2024, 9:32 pm AEST

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3 is fun, busy but fun

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor25 Apr 2024, 9:32 pm AEST

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As in do you picture a big family or small family? @Birdofparadise8

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor25 Apr 2024, 9:34 pm AEST

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Well, I was an only child, so definitely at least two, but I don't think any more than three. I guess it also depends on when I get married and how old I am, and also if I will go through the whole process okay. I'm just worried I'll be like my mum with having premature babies and all that. @ArraDreaming

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor25 Apr 2024, 9:40 pm AEST

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Yeah, that’s really understandable, a big real fear, but if it happens to you you find a way through it, @Birdofparadise8 we have had a couple of early losses really tough but we got through it, our kids are all healthy and happy we could not be more grateful, doesnt mean it doesn’t hurt though

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