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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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GlistenSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member Nwww that’s nice. You were helping people by validating and advocating for people.

RESPECT

G

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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just took our oldest kid to watch the last bit of the local footy near us, i can’t walk very well today so we drove and took our camp chairs, they won 101-84 @Birdofparadise8

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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That's good @ArraDreaming

31/25 at the moment a long way to go only just winning so far.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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Yeah he froths it cos they are like his idols @Birdofparadise8 he does Auskick

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Unknown userMember

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Understood @Birdofparadise8 🌺🙂

Take care of yourself, and I hope things can improve 🙂

one thought that came to mind… the uni counsellors may have suggestions, or there may be some support documents somewhere on your uni web site to help..?
hoping there may be some info around somewhere 🌺🙂

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Lol no they fobbed me off to my private psych last year @Former-Member

A psych before me current one.

Thank you for the suggestion though.

Carlton are losing 😢

What are you doing tonight?

I have nothing on once I get home.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Carlton won @Former-Member @ArraDreaming @tyme @ENKELI @Jynx @Snowie

You’ll be proud @ENKELI I was yelling very loud today hahaha 👸👑

The lady next to me said cardiac Carlton because that's what it is like.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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I did see that! @Birdofparadise8 I’m heading off now though, kids just got to bed and we’re about to tuck into some good food and drinks, and footy, cya mate! Talk soon

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Why do I have to feel sad once coming home?

I feel so alone and sad. I want comfort from someone, but I will never get that.
It doesn't help that when I come home and hear my roommates having a good time playing some games, I feel more alone. My expectations and reality of what I thought my two roommates would be like are so different. I thought we would all hang out, do things, cook, and have movie nights. But no, that doesn't happen.

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JynxModerator

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It is very hard indeed to feel lonely, even when not alone @Birdofparadise8. Perhaps you could speak to your housemates about doing more activities together?

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