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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Not the Taylor Swift one @ENKELI

I will once I've finished the ones I've got.

I'm sure they would.

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@Birdofparadise8 ah so you have more than one! Be careful, they can be addictive!! My girlfriend in the US was doing them and she kept talking about them. Finally I got a small cheap one and then I got hooked on doing them. For me having the colours set and not having to choose is good because I have trouble with colouring in for example. I can agonise over colours for ages until I finally give up and do something else. My brain has difficulty making simple decisions like what colour to use on a picture. I'm not sure whether I'm just weird (probably!!!) or if it is a mental issue.

Do you know where you're going tonight for dinner?

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You're not weird at all @ENKELI

Choosing the right colour can be hard.

No, I don't. He lives 40 min for me, so I will drive up, and then we will work it out. I sent him a few places but he didn't say anything.

I'm already getting hungry hahaha.

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@Birdofparadise8 yeah we don’t get much option like with bachelors. Masters do get quite specialised too.

@ENKELI I hope you are able to do something kind for yourself to wind down 💖. Keeping you in my thoughts

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Yeah, they would @creative_writer

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@Birdofparadise8 lol I know what you mean! I don't know what I'm doing for dinner yet, I have a few options but can't decide!

Hope you have a nice night regardless of where you go.

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We have worked it out @ENKELI

A pub down the road.

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@creative_writer oh dear I really need to read the entire sentence and not part - especially when you say you don't get much choice with bachelors. I was thinking are there any decent men around?! Then I read the rest of your comment and told myself to keep it above the belt ha ha ha! Oh Lord!

I'm actually doing better than I expected, there's a slight possibility of a change of direction in my path which I would love so I am focusing on that whilst remaining realistic so I don't get my hopes up and crash into a pit of depression like last year.

How are you feeling today? I hope you're better than you were yesterday you poor thing 🤗💕

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PUBMEAL!!!!! @Birdofparadise8 I love a good pub meal, with a lemon, lime and bitters on the side.

Now I'm thinking of steak and chips, veal parmi and chips, burger and chips....chips with chips!! I think I'll dig out the deep fryer and have chips with dinner tonight. Mmm chicken parmi, veg and chippies. Nummy!

Food is my favourite subject 😂

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Hope you went well with your exam today @Birdofparadise8

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