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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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Yeah

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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Process

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Right okay @ArraDreaming

I wish I could help.

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@creative_writer it's likely the flu vax probably something to do with how you're feeling. I know I felt pretty ordinary after getting jabbed. You definitely need to rest today and be kind to yourself lovely.

I am a lot less frustrated now, I feel more at peace and am thinking of some solutions going forward.

Listen to your body, you are obviously worn out

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 no I don't have it. When's your birthday? Maybe the birthday fairy will get it for you 😁

Or you will get a fabulous part time job and be able to get it for yourself. I don't even know how much it costs.

Ex friend has her birthday on the 24th April and I'm wondering whether to sort of wave a white flag and get her a bday card and take it to her work. There's also a movie we both want to see coming out in May and I am thinking about offering to take her and the kids to see it. That's what I'd like to do, I just don't know if I have the emotional strength to do it.

I guess I'll see how I go.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 I really hope I can get all my assignments finished on time so I am able to get a break.

@ENKELI I am grateful that uni at least provided free flu vaccines. Placement is very costly in itself. I think there has been pressure towards paid placement which is fair with the cost of living being so high.

I’m glad to hear you are feeling better, we are here for you on the forums every step of the way 💖

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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9th of September, I'm turning 21 @ENKELI

I think we spoke about the letter last time. It's up to you, but just know she might not respond to the birthday card.

I'm sure you will @creative_writer

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@creative_writer and right back at you 🤗

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 I will definitely remember your birthday, it's the same as my Godson. He was born 09/09/09.

Are you having a party for your 21st? I still remember mine, despite it being so long ago!!

Yeah I don't know what would be worse, not getting a reply or her saying more negative mean stuff.

I just wish I could get over it, forget it all but it was 10 years of my life and that's what I don't understand- how someone can just cut such a huge part of their life out and not look back or even consider reaching out.

What have you got on tomorrow?

I want to sort thrmy clothes like I was going to a month ago! Just need to get the space saver bags from Kmart

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Yeah, I remember you mentioning that we have the same date @ENKELI

I will probably just go out for dinner in Hobart with my family. I don't have enough friends for a party.

Yeah, I'm not sure what would be worse. I'm sorry.

I have my second exam and maybe see my friend who bailed last week for dinner.

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