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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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all good don’t have to say sorry @Birdofparadise8 mum was a lone pretty much always

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Ah okay, that would have been hard @ArraDreaming

I wish you the best of luck finding information on her.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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don’t have a lot of a confidence

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Oh okay. Um, I'm not sure what to say, sorry. It would be hard as she doesn't have any other family. @ArraDreaming

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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doesn’t matter

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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You okay? @ArraDreaming

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 hey princess, I needed to take a step away so I didn't take my frustration out on anyone on Sane.

I'm trying to get information about my dad and get him to list me as his next of kin instead of his brother in law and he's not answering me. I'm annoyed at the aged care facility not even allowing me to leave a message for him, it's an aged care ffs not the secret service!

The mods emailed me about what I'd written and that's fine, it's what their job is. I've been contacted before for not following guidelines and rightly so, the mods (moderators) are doing their job. I didn't want to reply too much while I was miffed with the situation with my dad, plus a couple of other non related Sane things so I chose to step away instead of losing it all together.

As I've mentioned before it is a hard month for me re ex friend and a couple of things have come up regarding her.

Thanks for being so lovely and caring, I'll be okay, I just need to keep myself calm and work through the drama.

💐👑🤗❤️

You're a very special person my princess

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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Nah but I will be ok @Birdofparadise8

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 I get ten days in May

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tymeModerator

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Hope you're okay @ENKELI . I'm sorry to hear things are not going too well in terms of getting information about your dad. I hope it gets resolved soon.

Good on you for maintaining your boundaries. Please reach out if you need anything.

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