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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Yeah he might need to think on a resolution for the whole thing.

That's good to hear. Is your course all online? @Former-Member

What are you doing for dinner. I'm having honey soy chicken legs and fried rice. Yum.

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indeed @Birdofparadise8 🙂

Course is all online - very convenient and something I really appreciate because otherwise it wouldn't be possible 💜

I had an early dinner, because I forgot to have lunch, and I had leftover lamb shanks with veggies I made some days ago which was very nice 🙂

Ooh, that sounds incredibly tasty! I hope you enjoy it!

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@Birdofparadise8 maybe he needs some time to think about things.

@Former-Member I thought I was better, but today has been harder. I do need to move on, I can’t keep going back, I can’t change it. Nor can I get what’s been taken

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That is good @Former-Member

Nice lamb shanks are so good.

Yeah I'm about to eat it now.

Yeah maybe he does @creative_writer

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Hey there @creative_writer 🌺

Kindly, recovery from trauma I have found isn’t completely linear, and isn’t time dependent, either.. meaning, there are still harder days, no matter how much time passes. However, I think the difference comes with how we manage, and how we can build resilience within our recovery and the time that passes…would love to hear what you think 💜🙂🌺
im so sorry the trauma you’ve experienced is still hurting

- it sounds like there is loss or grief present also, from what I’m reading in your message 💜🌺

holding space for you 🌺🙂

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Yes indeed, love lamb shanks 😋🌺 @Birdofparadise8 🌺

How was dinner? I hope you feel full and happy 💜🙂🌺

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Nearly full hahaha @Former-Member

Not feeling happy though.

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@Birdofparadise8 greetings princess. I've been down with a major sinus headache and the 36 degrees heat hasn't helped.

I hope your day has gone well.

This has probably been answered but I personally wouldn’t ask if he still wants to be friends. It sounds like you're giving him an ultimatum and he may feel backed into a corner which may backfire.

If you want to remain friends keep it light and suggest a catch up for a time that suits him as well as you.

Hope your day has gone well princess, I've just taken some more headache tablets. I'm fine lying down but as soon as I sit up bam! Heady poundy 🤯

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Is it your friend @Birdofparadise8 ? 🌺💜

Here for you 🙂💜

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Oh no I’m sorry @ENKELI

Oh well I’ve already told him how I feel. I’m not sure if you’ve seen the post.
my day has been good. I’ve done some study and made fried rice.
im feeling flat though now.
no it’s not my friend @Former-Member

I’m just sad. Depressed. It’s just hard. It hits whenever it wants. Yesterday was a good day. Now it’s not.

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