Not Coping

Hey @Birdofparadise8 🙂🌺 please don’t feel any sorrow; I am safer now than I have ever been in my life 🥰💜🌺

Being alone is allowing me so many freedoms I have never had before, and lets me have an emotional freedom that I have never had before - I can now truly express myself in the way and how I am, and of which I feel a full and complete sense of emancipation 🙂💜🌺

I’m finally doing the things in life that I cherish, which is to help and contribute in some way 🥰

All these physical issues are secondary to the freedom of mind and heart I now have, and I would not trade that in any way 🌺

Thank you so much for your deep understanding - you certainly are a special person ☺️🌺💜🤗

Hugs to you 🤗

I hope the turnitin score comes back below 20%, and I understand what studiosity is saying about the word in bold…they mean that the form of the word isn’t quite right - ‘form’ in this context is the word isn’t quite written in the way it needs to be to make better sense..

for instance, if you replace ‘response’ with ‘responses’ that is modifying the form, and it then provides a complete logical balance to the sentence.

What do you think? 🙂🌺💜

Aww okay. I'm happy you can have all that emotional freedom I genuinely am.

You are definitely helping and making a significant contribution to my life 💖🌸🌷

That's okay. I thought you might have been lonely saying that, which I would hate for anyone to feel.

Ah, okay, that makes sense. I'll fix it up @Former-Member

I got a turn it in score of 17% but 16% comes from the uni as there are over 200 lab reports of the same info ahahha. So basically 1% similarity report if you took out that part @Former-Member

Of that 1% I had a look and it's picking up my data and t.test stuff not even my written info I got from other sources.

That’s excellent @Birdofparadise8 🙌🏻😀

Thanks so much @Birdofparadise8 🥰🌺🤗

I’m really pleased and happy to know I can help in some ways for you - that’s made my afternoon! ☺️🙌🏻🌺

Yes I can totally understand how it would seem that I’d be lonely having said I don’t have family or friends, however I am very happy to be connected here on the forums and knowing that I can do something to help you really is wonderful to hear 🙂🌺

Ok - I’m glad that helped 🙂🌺

That’s okay @Former-Member

Yes you really do.
You have such a gentle personality and manner about you. The way you post is so nice.
I’ve been wanting to catch up with a friend for weeks and we had a plan tomorrow to go to the market in Melbourne and I said it’s 8-4pm he said he won’t be able to make it as he is going out drinking tonight. He goes out every Saturday since he has started his internships I said can’t you just miss one night drinking so we can go to the market. I doubt he will say yet. It’s a bit upsetting know he would prefer to do that than hang out with me.

@Birdofparadise8 I was teasing because you apologised for something you didn't ned to say sorry for, it I'm sorry if I worried you. It was me being playful and saying you don't have anyone to be sorry about and if you say sorry I'll take your crown. It's much easier to explain irl but it was a joke my princess 😊

I didn't sleep well, kept getting up every couple of hours to either go to the loo or refill my water bottle. Ridiculous! I've just taken some paracetamol for my sinus headache and it's kicked in so it will be sorting through boxes that have been in storage for a couple of years. Christmas all over again!

What are you up to?

@Former-Member how are you today sweetie? I hope your day is treating you as you deserve, with love and kindness.

Oh, okay, all good then @ENKELI

Oh, I'm sorry you didn't sleep well. I hope tonight will be better for you.

I've submitted my essay and been on and off the phone to my parents, hahaha. I'm trying to work out how to make a quiz online so I can upload all my study info, and it will create it for me, but I'm not having much luck.

You should read the post I said to @Former-Member

About my friend. I'm pretty upset about it. If he doesn't reply.

You’re too sweet @Birdofparadise8 ! ☺️🤗🌺

Thank you 🙂💜🌺

Oh, I’m so sorry to hear your friend isn’t seeing the unique opportunity to catch up that comes after you guys haven’t caught up in such a long time😔

It kind of feels almost like it’s personal, in a way… however I gently want to say that it could have much less to do with you, and a lot more to do with their newfound freedom and excitement that comes with going out every Saturday, so they really want to do that, instead - without really thinking of how it might impact you at all ❤️‍🩹

also, there may be an element of peer pressure or the desire to conform with what others do, so as not to be left out, in the instance it’s a bit of a cliquey situation… I’m not sure if I’m getting any of this right? However these are the first thoughts/feelings that come to mind around why someone may not want to give up a night out…

the other suggestion I thought I’d kindly mention, if you think this might be a worthwhile compromise dearest, is to maybe delay the meet up time till later on in the day, so your friend can recover a bit from the night out, and then still meet up with you in the middle of the day..?
Sometimes, people have priorities that are a lot less thinking of how their plans might impact on others, and a lot more about just what is working for them.
It’s really unfortunate that this happens, and I wish there was a solution where your friend could be there the entire day with you, to enjoy spending time hanging out and enjoying the markets..however sadly I think they may be wanting to explore these new things and freedoms they have, which unfortunately means that other plans fall by the wayside a bit😔

im so sorry dearest Birdofparadise8..I wish I had a solution that would change the situation, however the best I can do is gently say please try not to take it personally, and hopefully if it’s ok with you, a compromise on the meet up time may be able to sway their decision, so you can possibly spend the afternoon together instead 🙂🌺💜

what do you think..? 🤗

Thanks @Former-Member

He just goes out with one friend and likes to meet other people while he is out.

Yeah, I was thinking in the avo, like get there at 2 pm so we have two hours before the market shuts.

Oh well, it looks like he knows where his priorities lie. He sees this other guy all the time.

I don't see his fondness for going out drinking I couldn't think of anything worse. It's expensive and so loud and cramped. I much prefer quality time such as a dinner or lunch.

But no doesn't think about seeing me when he gets a day off with the public holidays.

Like, even if he does go out tonight, he could just not stay out as late, knowing he would be seeing me tomorrow.

It just sucks he is one of my only friends in Melbourne, and we get along really well.