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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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@creative_writer

I'm happy to hear you are feeling better as well.

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Unknown userMember

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How was the swim @Birdofparadise8 🌺🙂

I hope you enjoyed it ☺️

I’m sorry dearest, I may not be around too much this evening.. I think a bit of catch up rest after last week is likely the best thing, before next week comes along 🌺🙂

I hope the presentation goes really well; please do message how you go if you’d like to 💜🌺🤗

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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It was good thank you @Former-Member

Ah okay. Talk later in the week then.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member that sounds delicious💖😋. I like the idea of making food in one go and freezing it, takes away the hassle on a busy schedule.

I can’t seem to think right now on my assignment, maybe I’ll look back later.

Do flashbacks ever truly go away? Or do you learn to deal with them better?

Ohh, what of herbal teas do you like? I’m more of a tea person than coffee. Too much coffee can make on jittery and nauseous. Or maybe I just have a sensitive body.

How are you doing @Birdofparadise8?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I finished off my assignment and just been for a swim which was nice.

Now I don't want anyone to go off at me for saying this. But I'll be honest I'm a bit sad pinkflamingo won't around tonight.

I know everyone is busy and all myself included but it's just how I feel. I really enjoyed talking to everyone on here.

Please don't be mad. I'm also just sad in general. @creative_writer @Former-Member

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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And I know she has been so nice @creative_writer @Former-Member

I feel really bad just saying this.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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That’s not a bad thing, means you made a friend 😁

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Sometimes, I feel people say it's not a good thing.

Thank you for saying that.

Ahh now I'm crying. @ArraDreaming

I hate feeling alone.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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I’m not even sure what to say to that @Birdofparadise8. That sounds kind of like separation anxiety. Do you get anxious when you are away from others? Like there is this void you have to fill in with people?

I am curious, how do you define yourself independent to your relationships with others?

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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You aren’t alone you have us @Birdofparadise8 myself included
I can’t always reply straight away but I do eventually, this time of night just trying to get dinner sorted and everyone settled down
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