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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Your not the problem at all.

I can't believe she would comment on your weight that isn't very nice.

I remember my dad did once a couple years back that made me spiral.

@ENKELI

I went to where the ballet is earlier so I knew I was here. I've already eaten a mediocre burger.

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No not really becused I don't want you making fun of yourself. Your a bright and intelligent women. Your doing your masters right?

@creative_writer

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Yes that would be a great idea. I'm doing full time and that's hard. MH on top of it isn't great @Former-Member @ENKELI

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Just wanna say that I see you guys @Birdofparadise8 @ENKELI as being compassionate, caring, inquisitive, and determined people, who are fighting odds with things that have come against you, to consistently move forward, putting in such effort and heart 🙂🌺💜

With the experience I had as a tafe teacher, quite a number of students would say they felt they wouldn’t make it through, however I’ll say here what I used to gently say to them: the concerns about learning are often based and focussed on fears of failure rather than the joy of challenge and learning something new, and the discomfort of hard-earned growth that brings well deserved knowledge that is yours forever. The application of diligence is a much more important aspect of education than feeling like there isn’t enough ‘smarts’, and I know this from some years of marking a variety of assessment tasks 🙂🌺

Go gently and apply yourself regularly to having a curiosity that has no boundaries, and remember that every question is worth asking 🙂

I used to teach anatomy and I taught students who lived with deafness, loss of sight, and MH conditions - all of my students passed their course, which in turn was credited towards their heath science degrees (they didn’t have to do anatomy at uni). The reason I mention this is because it was the methods used to apply oneself to study rather then focussing on perceived barriers which made all the difference 🌺🙂

I hope this lands well with you guys - I say it in kindness and to gently provide some different viewpoints to see things from 🌺💜🙂

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We just have to use a quality appraisal form if that's what your meaning.

I've don't the Pico thing, and I'm doing the findings and limitations. Ive also done a prisma diagram.

There is a lot more but I'd have to look at the ppt. @Former-Member

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Hey @Birdofparadise8 @ENKELI @creative_writer 🌺🙂

shall we start a new thread for Studying and MH - Tips and Tools ?
what do you guys think? ☺️🌺

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Yep - quality of research in an appraisal @Birdofparadise8 🙌🏻🙂

I used to view these and look around for the right appraisal tool, along with its underpinning evaluative research (psychometric properties) that validated the tool to show that it can be used to robustly critique the given research article..

https://hslmcmaster.libguides.com/ebm/ebp


https://libraryguides.mayo.edu/systematicreviewprocess/criticalappraisal

is this of any help? 🤗🌺

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@Birdofparadise8 and you’re doing Biomed. Have you heard of Dunning-Kruger Effect. Smart people often underestimate their ability.

@Former-Member I feel there was a study thread somewhere, but I may be wrong

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Hey there @creative_writer 🙂🌺

Doing ok thank you 🙂

how are you doing? ☺️🌺

I’m sorry to hear you feel that way about study - however, I completely don’t see you that way 💜🌺🙂

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@Birdofparadise8 thanks hon. My aunt is pretty harsh when it comes to me. I was at my uncle's birthday party and she introduced my cousin's wife to her friend as her beautiful daughter in law. I was standing there and the friend waited for my aunt to introduce me and she just ignored me. I felt embarrassed and hurt.

Mediocre burger, that's disappointing. I get how you feel eating out alone. I hate having to do that.

Enjoy the ballet, it's on in about 45 minutes right?

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