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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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@Birdofparadise8 you wouldn’t be the first sadly, I have pushed a lot of people, working hard to show people I’m not all bad and build relationships with people…

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If you do, go. You could say your budget is tight, so get one drink and drink water. When you go out, you don't always have to drink alcohol.

Me being one that hasn't drunk that much at all.

Yeah it is. Can I ask what has changed and how you've done it? @ArraDreaming

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Well, I do get it. I have had a lot of people be mean to me, and I don't really want to come on here and experience that again, so that's why I would avoid. @ArraDreaming

Do you remember when we talked about your head and when you hit it a few times and thought you would die?

You have come a long way since then, and other times when you've been aggressive.

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@Birdofparadise8 lots of feedback, opportunities to work through how I’m feeling, setting goals, strategies at home that started with just learning to walk away and I’m overwhelmed or frustrated and now being able to actually communicate that,

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my tolerance as a whole has improved…

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I have my p's @ENKELI

You do an online test at the place you go, and then you get your learned, do your hours, and then go for your Ps. That's what it's like in Hobart.

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I was genuinely concussed that day lol @Birdofparadise8 doctor confirmed it, I blame the concussion haha

But yeah… I understand why you would avoid me sorry to hear you were scared of me, that is sad but I am glad it’s not all bad now.
Yeah I said some pretty rude things and even when not directed at people specifically people get hurt

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I'm going to assume you had anger issues at RO as well.

So, at your age now. It's good you're getting there.

Other than a few things here and there this week (which is how I've perceived them), you've been very kind to me.

@ArraDreaming

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OMG really @ArraDreaming

But you have hit your head other times and thought you would die right?

Yes it's good things in the right direction.

Yes I did wonder why you would post on other threads out of the blue.

I haven't seen you do that for a bit so it's good.

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Anger issues…. Is it PC to say I lost the plot? @Birdofparadise8 I got banned numerous times for short term and then would email them aggressively over and over and over and over and I did that with other services that I didn’t agree with as well… but really, they didn’t support me to do better, no real support plan or anything and then I got banned for 7 months meant to be 6. I got banned from most things when I was younger. Kicked out of school…

Anyway…. Ro was past life me! Was tough, but all these years later i have moved on.
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