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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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There are things in life that we don’t always agree on @Birdofparadise8 decisions that other people make that affect us, and we can’t change them. We just need to learn to accept them, learn from them if we have somehow had a play in it and then move on.
I, like many others can see that you are upset by the decision that was made, you have been told that the decision will not be reversed, so it’s best now to just accept it, perhaps it’s time to look for other ways to fill your time from where you would of spent time on RO and to stop rehashing it over and over cause it just makes you more and more upset. It’s really not healthy to keep digging it up.
Maybe when you get to return to RO you can share with them all the new things that you have learnt, new coping skills, books you have read, interesting people you have meet. Maybe they will see the change in you too.

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Hey @ArraDreaming @Zoe7 @Jynx @ENKELI @Blackbird11 @Snowie @Shaz51 @Former-Member @tyme @PizzaMondo

How is everyone today?

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Yes, I get that, but don't you understand what I'm trying to say. If someone broke my arm I wouldn't want to accept that.

I was simply just asking as my psych said I don't need to accept it. He was quite sad about it @Bow

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Hi @Birdofparadise8

I'm doing ok, how are you? What have you been up to today?

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Uni and just saw my psych @Blackbird11

If you see from below. What do you think?

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Buddy you don’t have to love it to accept it to start to move on accepting isn’t being happy over it
A lot of things have happened to me that I’m not happy about but I have accepted they have happened because I can’t take them back or change them

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But I can’t contribute to this conversation anymore it’s just an unhealthy cycle for all

i have been banned from most services in my life for different reasons so I’m trying to use my experience to help you and I just don’t feel like it’s floating

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Do you see what my psych is saying though?

I get what you're saying. I'm just need to process what everyone on here says, KHL and my psych. It's a lot of opinions on what to do. @ArraDreaming

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If my arm broke I would have to accept it I couldn’t sit there and mop for the 6 weeks because my arm was broken, I’d be upset and angry at first but I would HAVE to accept it because what else can I do? It’s unhealthy to sit there miserable for weeks when there is literally nothing that can be done @Birdofparadise8

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Omg @ArraDreaming

I'm just asking about what my psych said. That's all.

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