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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor08 Nov 2022, 6:51 pm AEDT

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor19 Mar 2024, 10:57 am AEDT

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Been better

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor19 Mar 2024, 10:57 am AEDT

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That's fair enough @ArraDreaming

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor19 Mar 2024, 10:58 am AEDT

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Been better as well @lavenderhaze

Yesterday afternoon was awful. The past few days have sucked.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor19 Mar 2024, 11:20 am AEDT

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Why do roommates have to be so moody?

All morning, she has been ahh. I have so much going on, and I'm not like leaching it onto them. @lavenderhaze

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor19 Mar 2024, 11:21 am AEDT

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It's not depression mood, but that real teenage moodiness. I'm past that. @lavenderhaze

She has been awake for a bit, so surely she can't still be that bad.

I'm all chipper when I wake up, like when I am around people. Obviously, I feel like absolute shit inside, but I'm not showing it.

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lavenderhazeSenior Contributor19 Mar 2024, 11:21 am AEDT

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Aw, I am sorry to hear that this morning hasn't started great @Birdofparadise8 @ArraDreaming 💜

Do you both have plans for the day, or are you taking it easy? Having a rest day might be good 🙂
it's hot in Melbourne today, what's the weather like where you are? ☀️

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor19 Mar 2024, 11:22 am AEDT

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I’m in regional Victoria and it’s warm here too we are just at home though we were up all night so just hanging under the aircon here

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor19 Mar 2024, 11:23 am AEDT

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I'm in Melbourne as well.

I'm going to my volunteer thing this afternoon where I will spend some time with an older man at a nursing home. @lavenderhaze

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lavenderhazeSenior Contributor19 Mar 2024, 11:25 am AEDT

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Aw I imagine that can be draining for you to experience @Birdofparadise8

Do you have anything to take your mind off it? Maybe some music? 🙂

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor19 Mar 2024, 11:30 am AEDT

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I've just got the TV on while looking at some research articles for my presentation next week. It's on emotional intelligence.

She has left now for her class. She will be going home tonight, so that's good. She will be back on Thursday, I think.

I have so much going on in my mind. Other negative things around me are too much. I don't see why she should always express her moodiness to others.

Am I being unreasonable? It affects me and makes me feel more sad. @lavenderhaze

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