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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hahaha all good @ENKELI

I asked my mum how to spell it and she wouldn’t tell me.
you have the movie on Disney now.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Had the first act @ENKELI

been waiting ages for her to come on.

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 oh I hate that! Waste half the night with the headliners!

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I know and now I’m on my way home and it’s going to take forever I have to get a tram and train @ENKELI

It was good though.
I will look forward having my space again.
mum is saying I’ve wreaked her night because I’m tired and want to go to bed.

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 okay, so that's on her, not you. She chose to have her night "wrecked" because of her own needs and wants. You did nothing to wreck her night. You are tired, it's been a long day and you have had excess stress. Don't let her get to you. I know that's hard, she's your mum and if she's anything like mine she can be very manipulative and make you feel like crap, but that's on her.

I will say it over and over until you know it's not you 😊

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Yeah I guess so @ENKELI

They don’t know how I’ve been feeling so that also doesn’t help.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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How much longer will you be around @ENKELI

@I’m not feeling good already and I’m no where near home.

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 it's only 8.20 here so I'll be around for as long as you need me hon.

Don't let your mum get to you, you know she has her own issues and she's projecting her hurt on to you. It is wrong but it's unfortunately what people do.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Thank you @ENKELI

My train doesn’t leave for another 20 minutes. Then about 20 minutes home depending on which way the loop is going out of the city.
ahh I wish I could feel alright, but I don’t.

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 want me to send you a link from 17 magazine about TS?

Just in case you feel like being distracted for a couple of minutes.

https://www.seventeen.com/celebrity/a60214038/taylor-swift-travis-kelce-life-tour-break-life-details/?source=nl&utm_source=nl_svn&utm_medium=email&date=031624&utm_campaign=nl34707893&GID=b4cf3556908ca704ff2c08870b7894a579b51f7932d57d5ff8850135eaaadd5f&utm_term=TEST-%20NEW%20TEST%20-%20Sending%20List%20-%20AM%20180D%20Clicks%2C%20NON%20AM%2090D%20Opens%2C%20Both%20Subbed%20Last%2030D

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