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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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So that is not an option @Birdofparadise8 What else can you all do together that does not cost anything?

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Talk @Zoe7

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What are things you can all talk about then @Birdofparadise8 ? Can you organise a dinner or lunch to get together and get to know each other a bit more?

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I have no clue. With one of them last week, we talked for four hours straight. I'm sure we can find something to talk about.

Yeah, well, there is a market on Sunday, so maybe we can go for a walk around there.

I'd have to ask them when they can do lunch. @Zoe7

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They are all great ideas @Birdofparadise8 Maybe organising between the 3 of you a day/time you can 'book' in each week to do things together. That could be a lunch, a walk, the market to get food etc. Having that booked in time together you can also talk about things like chores, responsibilities, things you have in common and things you can do together.

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Yes, I need to talk to them about cleaning. We have an inspection next week and I don't want to be doing it all. @Zoe7

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Would be good to sit down and do a roster @Birdofparadise8 When everyone knows their roles and responsibilities, it is easier to stay on top of everything.

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Yeah, that's what I'm planning. They both have been coming and going, so we all haven't been together until last week then I was sick with covid, so I stayed away from them, and so I will see if we can talk on Thursday @Zoe7

Anyway, we can move on from them if you like. Did you have work today?

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Yes I work full time @Birdofparadise8 Have to head to bed now though as I am super tired and have to be at work a bit earlier tomorrow for a meeting. Catch you another time 🌞

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Okay, all good @Zoe7

Have a good night. Thanks for chatting for a bit.

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