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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I'm going to a guys place for dinner @tyme

On the 13th. We were going to do coffee, but he asked if he could cook for me.

He even asked what I like to drink and stuff. He lives in a shared house but people will be away. I hope he isn't wanting a one night type of thing, because I don't want that. I haven't dated anyone so you know.

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tymeModerator

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Nah, I'm not a night owl. At the moment, with the kids on school holidays, this owl here is just an out-of-whack owl lol.

As for visiting this guy, sounds lovely! How pleasant that he wants to cook for you. @Birdofparadise8 Take it slowly.

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor

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Hey @Birdofparadise8

My headspace was in a bad place but it was beautiful 😍

I worked this morning, and been chatting to an old friend on the phone.

How was dinner?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Oh okay. Are they staying with you or something @tyme?

Yeah, he even asked what I'd like for dessert as well.

I definitely will. Do you know anything about knowing red flags or that someone is a player?

Can I be rude and ask your gender at all?

Hi @Blackbird11

That's good. It was pretty. Where did you go again?

It was alright. I had chicken thighs, some salad and fried up pink eys from Monday. They are so good when slightly crispy when in the frying pan.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hi @Blackbird11

How are you?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hi @Snowie

How are you?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hi @tyme

Are you around?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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@Blackbird11

I think I've got food poisoning from the chicken last night I woke up at 1 am and started vomiting and have been doing since until 9 or 10 am. I'm so tired and my stomach and back hurt. I was going to the movies today, but not anymore.

I hope you are feeling okay.

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor

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That's not good @Birdofparadise8 hope you are feeling better soon 🤗

I'm grounding after a challenging shift at work. I need rest.

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