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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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All good @tyme

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Even when I have said I am safe I still get emails

yes I know it's duty of care

If I said I am feeling suicidal does that count? As unsafe

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I think it would be more if you're in immediate danger to yourself and if you're in harm's way @bartart23. I've been suicidal a lot on here, but then I'm safe so it's okay.

Right @tyme

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor

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 here it is @Birdofparadise8 @bartart23

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Sometimes I don't mean to panic people or mean to say hurt or suicidal thoughts or whatever it sometimes comes out wrong or sounds unsafe @Birdofparadise8

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tymeModerator

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Hey @bartart23 ,

Like @Birdofparadise8 said, having suicidal thoughts doesn't mean you are not safe.

Due to my BPD, I have persistent suicidal thoughts. However, will I act on them? No. Am I safe? Yes.

Hence, it's not an issue.

You are unsafe when you know you are going to act on those thoughts. That is when we need to contact emergency services.

I hope that is clearer @bartart23

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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wow so cool @Blackbird11

How did you do it?

Ah okay I get that @bartart23

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Love it @Blackbird11

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor

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On an app called Zen Color @Birdofparadise8

Thanks @Birdofparadise8 @bartart23

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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I think I may of fucked up 😭😭 not harm

This is a time I need daddy

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