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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hey @bartart23

I'm your friend aren't I?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hi @tyme

I got your response to my email. I've started to reply but had to go. I'm on the train. I'll finish my reply on the bus.

I hope you've had a good day.

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Yea you are ❤️

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Aww Yay @bartart23

I'm here for you.

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Yes I know @Jynx but it's everyday it's too much for me to handle yes duty of care heard it all before calling lifeline or khl isn't going to help

So to answer all the check in emails no I'm not okay yes there's thoughts

I don't need anyone check in emails

I've just told you all now be happy

I want to be your friend @Jynx would you accept me?

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Thanks @Birdofparadise8 I hope I didn't step a line with that text 😔

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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It's okay I just saw you said you didn't have any friends so I wanted to check.

@bartart23

What's something nice you can do for yourself tonight?

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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It's fine your my only friend @Birdofparadise8

I'm just in a bad mood because everyone keep emailing me and it's just too much

I don't know what I am doing tonight I've got my sad music on

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I'm crying I've haven't been this unwell in months it's all hitting me at once I don't know how to cope anymore 😔

Everything feels too much

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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What about @Jynx, @tyme and @Blackbird11?

You've spoken to them.

Well, I'm here, and I'm not going anywhere.

Also, you know, with KHL, you can have a regular counsellor. I have one there, and we have been speaking for a bit over a year. So you can try and find someone there. I've found it really good.

Hey, does anyone know anything about EMDR? My psych mentioned it briefly today at the end of my session. We were going through what we've worked on, and I said how I want to process my bullying more next year and work on self-compassion eww. I've tried and hated it, but I might need to do more.

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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I don't think @tyme would be my friend they are the boss

@Jynx why would they be my friend?

I just yelled at everyone I haven't really talked to the other one

yea I have a khl I have 2 but I am refusing to talk because they upset me badly

Hope you're holiday is good @Birdofparadise8 ☺️

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