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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Your name @bartart23

I was wondering why you called yourself on here.

@Blackbird11 is because they like black birds and family things to do with 11.

Mine, lol, is just because I'm Laura, and 4 was the number I could use.

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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I didn't know what name to use and I only had that in my head 😂 I could of called it something else it would let me I like it now I am used to it 😊 if you want you can call me chicken head55 😂

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Ah okay hahaha. @bartart23

I think bean (been) there and done it lol.

haha chicken head lol.

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RiverSealModerator

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Hey @creative_writer, sounds like you are having a tough time with urges atm. What has gotten you through these times in the past that might work now? RiverSeal

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Yep haha it was hard to pick a name 🤣

I am about to lose my shit the young kid is coming back

I have to be quiet they looking at me fuck I'm out

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RiverSealModerator

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Hey @bartart23, it sounds like you are having a tough time with negative thoughts about yourself atm. It can be challenging to deal with these so I understand that you might not be feeling great about them. Do you know about learning to focus on the things we can control vs the things we can't control? It can be a very powerful tool to put the things that are troubling us out of our minds. What are your plans for today and are you practicing some self-care? Take care RiverSeal

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Oh, I'm sorry @bartart23

I hope you'll be okay.

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Hey @RiverSeal my plans for today staying home the cat is asleep next to me and I will be annoying them later and playing Xbox

Plus I am getting a package today

The thoughts don't go away I done everything

What about you? Plans

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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No I won't but it's fine I am just a shit person

Sorry for ruining everyone life on here

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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You're not ruining anyone on here @bartart23

We care about you.

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