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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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I haven't kept up to your discussions @Birdofparadise8 do you want to talk about it?

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Just upsetting people @Blackbird11

about me being upset.
I’m at Woolworths trying not to cry it’s so hard. I now need to cook.

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@bartart23 oh honey I'm so sorry you're feeling that way. You are such a valued person and there are always going to be people who will bully and treat you harshly.

To not feel right in your own skin must be an awful feeling but you know what? You were created as an individual. There is only one of you and without you the world would be less of a good place. You have a story to tell, and remember, diamonds can only be created from high pressure. Never forget you are a diamond.

@Birdofparadise8 you are such a kind and caring person, you are going to come out stronger for all you've been through. You're a diamond too remember.

I have been sad about how my dad treated me all week, and then yesterday I found out my uncle had passed away. I was telling a good friend about how I am wondering how I will make it to the funeral as it is not in Perth and I will need to pay for accommodation. She mentioned she wasn't feeling well and I told her to let me know if there was anything I could do for her. Her reply? "You are always thinking of other people no matter what is going in in your life, thank you."

That simple comment brought me to tears and made me realise that there are people I know who really care.

I'm still not okay. I'm still struggling to get up some mornings. But knowing that I am valued by even just one person makes things a little better.

Stay safe and remember, we are all perfectly imperfect xx

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Aww thank you @ENKELI

I’m so sorry about your uncle. I hope you can go to the funeral if you can and want to.

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Oh @ENKELI you are a really kind person 😊 I am sorry about you grandpa I hope you're okay ❤️

I am going to leave because the thoughts are bad and I don't wanna say anything

I hope that person will chat later I can't remember the name it starts with J

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That's tough @Birdofparadise8 be gentle with yourself. Sometimes we can't control our emotions, that's when we need to be even kinder to ourselves.

 

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I think you mean @Jynx @bartart23

I hope your okay.
I guess. I’m in the kitchen and another lady is here trying really hard I just want to go up stairs and cry so bad. I don’t even know why ahhh. When you think things are going okay. Maybe because I’ve only seen one person on Wednesday which is my psych and no one since.

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@bartart23 look after yourself, and just tag me if you wanna talk queer stuff 💜

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@bartart23 Stay safe and remember there are people here 24/7

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Hiya @Jynx if you're free around 5.30? Or 6? Do you finish work soon? I am happy to chat about it now if you're free 😊

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