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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Eh, I don’t know @bartart23

I feel like I’m falling. I'm just a sad, bad person.

I'm sorry you want to cry. Do you feel any better than last night?

Do you have a Baby, a baby pet?

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Aww @Birdofparadise8 I am the same as you falling sad shit person I feel as tho I have failed everyone it's more of the bad thoughts

It was a real baby it was when I was 17 I don't know how to say it without triggering others

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Yeah, shitty is a good way to put it @bartart23

I feel like I'm a shitty person.

Ah, okay, so I'm assuming an accidental pregnancy if I'm correct?

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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Yea @Birdofparadise8 yes your right

I am questioning myself about my sexual ity

It won't make sense to you but I am happy to tell you if you like

I am a shitty person who failed everyone badly

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MelbcoffeesnobSenior Contributor

Re: Not Coping

Hey @bartart23

I don't know the full extent of what you are going through, Don't you think you're being a little bit too hard on yourself there? Everyone makes mistakes, we are only human.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I'm sorry if someone did something to you @bartart23

That should have never happened. Do you see your child? You're 21 now, right?

Sure, you can tell me. I'm a straight female, so I might not fully understand.

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bartart23Senior Contributor

Re: Not Coping

Hi @Birdofparadise8 no that child is gone

It's ok sorry for coming to sane I am just a mess

I ruined everything yea safe

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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No, you don't have to go @bartart23

Please, you haven't said anything wrong.

I'm a little confused. Have you had two children?

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bartart23Senior Contributor

Re: Not Coping

Hi @Melbcoffeesnob there is lots of you

Not been hard on myself it's feeling down

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bartart23Senior Contributor

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No @Birdofparadise8 I had one kid but it's sadly didn't make it

I am just crying my eyes out

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