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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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I get it @Birdofparadise8 i had to prove my independence when I moved for college… but of all the examples… honestly it doesn’t matter. I shouldn’t be here I’ll go

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No I’m not

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Going

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I'm sorry @Bow

I didn't mean to make you upset.

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I've taken it out. I'm really sorry about that. I didn't mean to offend or upset anyone @Jynx

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I've emailed you @Bow keep an eye out 💜

We all make mistakes @Birdofparadise8, thank you for editing your post.

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@Birdofparadise8 considering what you've been through you are doing remarkably well.

I was bullied at my last 2 work places, I was honest about my anxiety and my team leader used it to her advantage. The job before this one I reported my manager to HR and the HR chick went straight to my manager and told her. Because I was casual I got fired 2 days later.

How do I try and be positive about applying for a job, wondering if I'm going to be treated like crap again?

Hope you have a good day Wednesday 😊

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@Jynx I feel partly responsible as @Birdofparadise8 was replying to me. My apologies too, I hope @Bow is okay.

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Thank you @ENKELI

That isn't very good. I don't understand how any manager could treat you like that.

Well, it's happened to me in two jobs as well. I was told I was given extra training, but I still wonder where that was. Ultimately, I was happy to leave. I would go home nearly every shift and cry.

That's so bad they fired you. Did you talk to HR or the union about it?

Hmm, that's a good question. I'm a bit unsure sorry.

Thanks. I have a session with my psych at 12, and I’m going out to a summer night market with my aunt for dinner.

What are you up to today?

Did you taste the cake?

Also, it's not your fault. I shouldn't have said those specific options as to why I couldn't get Centrelink. I clearly wasn't thinking right.

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@Birdofparadise8 The job where the HR told my manager what I'd said I was casual so they just said I was no longer required. They don't need to give a reason when you're casual. Most of the staff knew the manager was a bully but no one was game to stand up to her so I had no support.

The cake is good, nice and moist.
I am going to my doctor to pick up a script and then go food shopping, nothing exciting. I'll probably just read a book or something later.

Hope your day goes well 😊

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