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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Yes, they are great @Snowie

It will be nice to see them.

Oh, why is that @Snowie

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Hi @Birdofparadise8

How are you today?

I'm doing ok, got ready for the day and will head out into the world.

I have a psychiatrist, case manager and peer worker through the community mental health team. I see them once a fortnight.

I finished the peer guide program through SANE, it has been such a blooming experience ✨️

I am now studying through a scholarship certificate IV Mental Health Peer Work

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Glad they are great @Birdofparadise8

My mum lives with my family (in an independent unit) and my father is deceased.

I have one brother whom I haven't had contact with for about 4 years. There is a lot of history behind this which I won't go into. I only have a few cousins which I rarely see. Most of them live interstate. I see my husbands side of the family at family catch ups, like birthdays and christmas.

I am not really the sociable type anyway. I would much rather just be on my own and in the company of myself. I don't really have any friends, but I am comfortable with that.

Do you have many friends?

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I'm alright @Blackbird11

Ah okay. I don't know why I can never get comm MH. How did you get it?

Is that the ACT Hobart? They were awful to me.

That's great to hear.

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Different to ACT, I had them for a little while when I was homeless, they were good to me. I was referred to them through the hospital staff at RHH @Birdofparadise8

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Ah, okay, I'm pleased you're happy with that, but I am sorry you don't get to see everyone.

I love seeing family. In Melb I have one friend. It's so sad I wish I had more it's been really hard. @Snowie

I've signed up for a gals brunch, and they have 25 other girls, and you sit with four others, so I'll do that next year.

I have more in Hobart from dancing. I'm looking into dancing for next year.

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It's hard to have friends when you have a mental illness @Birdofparadise8 I find people stay clear of me. I don't think they know what to say or how to act. Not blaming them though.

That gals brunch sounds interesting. Might be a way to meet new people.

I hope you are able to get back into dancing. Might be a good way to meet people too. My daughter used to dance and was talking about doing it again next year too.

Better go have a shower. Still in my pj's here!! Better get of my butt.

I hope you make it to the gym.

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OMG you were homeless @Blackbird11

I'm so sorry to hear that. That would have been so hard.

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Yes @Birdofparadise8 it was a very hard start! When I moved down here just over two years ago. I had an episode which I withdrew into myself. I had a place to stay going into hospital and they wouldn't have me back out of hospital. I stayed in a shelter for a while until I found a place to stay... that was not a good experience either. Eventually I ended up back where I started and things are safe now.

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Yeah, it is hard. People have left me because of it, too.

If you google it, there is even one for 40+, but I don't know how old you are. It a top-secret location to.

Silly me just contacted a ballet place and didn't realise it's an hour away lol @Snowie

Yeah same here @Snowie

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