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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor08 Nov 2022, 6:51 pm AEDT

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor07 Nov 2023, 11:22 am AEDT

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What's wrong with your bones @Shaz51

Do you have osteoporosis.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor07 Nov 2023, 11:24 am AEDT

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Aww @Blackbird11

You are too kind. You have been so wonderful to me.

I hope it will get better one day. It feels like it's been so long.

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor07 Nov 2023, 11:40 am AEDT

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Yes going through the hard stuff takes time and appears endless but it will change. New things will come and old things will go, just like our breath inhale... exhale.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor07 Nov 2023, 11:42 am AEDT

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That is very true @Blackbird11

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor07 Nov 2023, 12:13 pm AEDT

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Oh no, I just found out my friend that I have has got a full-time job next year doing a placement, and it's not near me. I'll get to see him even less then. Between his work, my work and uni. We probably won't be able to see each other. Now I'm crying over that @Blackbird11

Don't get me wrong. I'm so happy he got the job, but I'm being selfish and thinking about myself and not seeing him.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor07 Nov 2023, 12:14 pm AEDT

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Now I'm even more alone @Blackbird11

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor07 Nov 2023, 12:57 pm AEDT

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That's a wonderful opportunity for your friend @Birdofparadise8 sad for you though 😢 keep looking for friends, who knows if you get this job and you might find friends there. We're here for you 💚

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor07 Nov 2023, 12:59 pm AEDT

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In every job I've had, I'm always the youngest by a mile. Admin in a hospital, you don't see many 20-year-olds there @Blackbird11

Am I selfish though, thinking about myself?

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Blackbird11Senior Contributor07 Nov 2023, 1:17 pm AEDT

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You're not selfish @Birdofparadise8, be gentle with yourself 💚

You seem like a good conversationalist and I'm sure you will be able to find friends. Trust the process.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor07 Nov 2023, 1:21 pm AEDT

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Yeah maybe @Blackbird11

Still, feel like no one likes me why would they anyway? I don't like myself.

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