FORUMS

Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

  • 47,612Members
  • 1,358,869Posts
  • 1,400,000Visitors
Something’s not right

Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

24564 replies

11,791 - 11,800 of 24,564

In response to: Not Coping

Re: Not Coping

What time do you finish @outlander

In response to: Re: Not Coping

Re: Not Coping

1030 @Birdofparadise8

In response to: Re: Not Coping

Re: Not Coping

Can we talk about this a bit later @tyme

I'm at the ballet now.

I'm sorry okay.

In response to: Re: Not Coping

Re: Not Coping

@tyme

The ballet was absolutely amazing.

In response to: Re: Not Coping

Re: Not Coping

I'm sue it was @Birdofparadise8

Do you need tickets to go? I've actually never even thought how it it runs. I just know 2 people are are in the Aust Ballet.

In response to: Re: Not Coping

Re: Not Coping

It was so good.

Yes you do need tickets. You really should go to one next year. Mum and I get a season pass and have the same seats.

I'm going Swan Lake this Saturday with my mum.

What are you doing this week?

In response to: Re: Not Coping

Re: Not Coping

OMG I’m having the meeting with work today at 1 pm I’m so scared.

In response to: Re: Not Coping

Re: Not Coping

try not to be?

My understanding was you've met with them already ahead of today?? If so, you kind of know what to expect... @Birdofparadise8

And what's the worst case scenario...that you're fired? Well, OK. You're already interviewing for new placement anyways...

You got this.

In response to: Re: Not Coping

Re: Not Coping

No I never had the meeting yet it was rescheduled because I was in hospital @Kyle1

I know it's not the worst if I get fired. I just don't like uncertainty and having to go through a meeting will be hard. I'm just nervous because I'm not sure what they are going to say. I also want to be able to stand up for myself but not come across rude. Do you know how I can do that?

In response to: Re: Not Coping

Re: Not Coping

maybe...depends on the tone of the meeting @Birdofparadise8

My first suggestion would be to let them say whatever it is without trying to interrupt. If there's anything complimentary, thank them for it. And if theres anything you disagree with, say to them "I appreciate you bringing this to my attention, I recognise (whatever it is). Respectfully, however, I'd like to say..."

You're a big girl, Laura, and you'll have to act that way.

Be polite. But don't be a can for crushing. Or reactionary.

Believe in yourself. Show them and yourself what professional dignity you have. 🙏

11,791 - 11,800 of 24,564