Not Coping

Oh should I have someone with me then @tyme?

I’m not apart of the union I’ve only been here less than six months I didn’t think I would need it.
Okay have a good night.

I reckon it's good to organise someone @Birdofparadise8 . Would your aunty be free?

No she will be at work and so would my uncle. I can’t get anyone at such short notice @tyme

Is it bad if I don’t.

Otherwise it's your word against theirs and sometimes it can go a bit haywire @Birdofparadise8 . If they said bring a support person, I'd say to take up the offer.

When I went through my situation, at first, I said, no, I don't need a support person because I haven't done anything wrong. But after speaking to people, I did take someone from the union (even though I wasn't part of the union), and it definitely helped because they were able to share what they got from the meeting (just in case I interpreted it incorrectly).

Or even your uncle?

But I don’t have anyone that could come @tyme

Look @Birdofparadise8 , It's not essential, but it's just a good idea. If you speak to your aunt and uncle, I wonder if they can suggest someone. Or even a zoom call with someone if they can't come in person?

Do you know how I could get one @tyme?

There is a union but I didn’t join @outlander

do you know of anything else?