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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Thank you @Shaz51

Yeah, I do.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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It is hard @Birdofparadise8

Both My grandparents passed away in the same year

And we have those wonderful memories which we will carry with us forever ♥️

I still have the jacket the I made with my grandma when I was a teenager 😊

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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aww that's so sweet. I just want to give my nan a hug. I need her so much @Shaz51

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Shaz51, it sounds like a lot has been happening for you. Sending you lots of love and hugs 💖🫂. I hope your hubby feels better soon and the car can get fixed

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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I know @Birdofparadise8 , I wish I could give my nan and great nan a hug too xx

I have talked to my nan lots of times at night time when I am in bed

Sometimes I feel she is here with me

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Thank you @creative_writer xx

Are you OK my friend

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Shaz51, not really, I guess I’m just disappointed. I had a stable three weeks, and it’s like my life has gotten chaotic again, not even sure why. But you know life, it’s not always predictable, and MH doesn’t always make sense. I hope tommorow is kinder towards you 💖

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tymeModerator

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Hey @Birdofparadise8 ,

Grief is not an easy thing. It is good if you have someone to talk to about it. I hear how much thinking about it is hurting you.

As the same time, what are some things you can do to better yourself so that you don't go down?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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My SI is bad @tyme

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tymeModerator

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I'm hearing you @Birdofparadise8 . So what are things you can do to distract yourself? It's good that you can connect with others on the forums here. That's a good start.

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