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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Thank you @outlander

Bad timing on there part.

I don't know what Ive done wrong.

My regular at KHl said its a blessing in disguise as they weren't nice to me anyway.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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you could always ask them @Birdofparadise8 ask for feedback upon leaving.

your counsellor might be right. there are always other opportunities out there

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Re: Tw Not Coping

I did say that to my counsellor and she said though do I want to waste my time and energy for them to just fire me anyway?

There are a few things they haven't done right.

I feel I'm just going to be so upset losing my job that I just want them to say it and I leave.

I don't want to break in front of three people.

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fluffylightSenior Contributor

Re: Tw Not Coping

Is it something you would want to explore with your manger? I respect your stance on not wanting to waste time and energy on them as well.

Holding lots of space for you 💛

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thats true. you might have to find a way to accept that it is what it is and that its not a workplace hangin around for. try and look for the positives that you have some job interviews in the near future @Birdofparadise8 its hard but it may be for the best

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I really don't know to be honest @outlander @fluffylight

There is so much going on right now I think I will worry about the job interviews first then the funeral and then once I go back to Vic I can worry about it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yes good idea @Birdofparadise8 sometimes you have to break it down so it doesnt seem to big

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Re: Tw Not Coping

Yeah thank you @outlander

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Re: Tw Not Coping

Dinner was nice @outlander @fluffylight

It was good to see my friends.

What are you both up to?

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fluffylightSenior Contributor

Re: Tw Not Coping

Glad you had were able to connect tonight 🙂 Thanks for sharing the space!

I'm going to be heading to have my dinner soon and log off! Oporto with yummy chilli 🙊

Night night

Take care @Birdofparadise8 sending lots of light
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