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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Ohh sending you lots of tender hugs my friend 🤗 ❤️ @Birdofparadise8

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@Birdofparadise8, sometimes it does get worse before it gets better, hang in there💓. I’m okay, just a bit sick

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@creative_writer yeah it's similar sides of the same creative coin! I also play solo-D&D which is almost exactly like writing a story, except you have dice rolls to randomly determine outcomes for certain things - keeps things interesting haha. Tomorrow I have a friend's bday gig - she's a DJ so I'm going to see her play and will have a little dance. I hope you have a nice restful sleep hun 💜

@Birdofparadise8 I'm glad you're with family, good you all have each other. Carrot cake sounds yum!

We have different shifts throughout the week, depends on who is working and how many are on.

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Thank you @Shaz51

Yeah I’m trying too @creative_writer

Yes I think once the funeral is over it will be a bigger shock and that she is really gone will set it.



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Yes it is good @Jynx

My uncle, aunt, cousin and her husband will come down soon after we find out when the funeral is on. Mum, Dad, my aunt are going to the funeral home on Monday to find out how it all works.

Im feeling pretty crap today. It’s not really the birthday I was hoping for, but that’s okay.

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@Birdofparadise8 always a rough process I'm sure. I am sorry it's not the bday you wanted, it's super hard. I hope you get to have a little celebration tomorrow, and many hugs too along the way.

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Mmm yeah I guess. I hope tomorrow will be okay. I think I’ll be putting a brave face on in front of everyone. I don’t like to show that I’m sad @Jynx

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@Birdofparadise8 I think if there's ever a time to let all your sadness flow, it would be now. Sometimes it can also help others if they see that it's okay to show how much it hurts. Whatever feels right for you though hun.

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I will see how things go. The funeral will be where it hurts the most @Jynx

Thank you for your kind words and support.

Have a good night I’ll talk when your next on.

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You're welcome @Birdofparadise8. Night hun, big hugs and condolences for you n your fam. Hope you have a restful night 💜

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