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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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@Shaz51 Aww that is a very heavy thing to hear for sure. Sounds like Mr Shaz is really down on himself, and his self-esteem is at a very low point 😞

Maybe you two could do a little activity where you take turns talking about the things you love most about each other. Ask him to see himself through your eyes for a little bit.

@Birdofparadise8 I loved it too! Yeah very on point with its commentary, I was quite impressed hey. Very keen to see it again.

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Margot Robbie was amazing, don't you think @Jynx

What have you been up to today?

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Very true @Jynx he seems to be very low lately esp this week after seeing the New MH team and then specialist last week and then scan , blood tests , Brain scan

Gets the results next week, also been put on 2 new meds as he is suffering from insomnia too

He was sitting next to me but he has moved away now

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@Birdofparadise8 Margot Robbie is a bloody legend. Have you seen Birds of Prey? She's the lead, and she's absolutely incredible.

@Shaz51 All sorts of stuff going on for him, sounds super intense. I imagine there's maybe appt fatigue that could be part of it all too. I hope the two of you can still carve out some time to spend together, doing stuff you enjoy 💜

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No I haven't I might have a look @Jynx

I'm going for a run so I'll be back soon.

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It is a pretty violent movie btw @Birdofparadise8 and has themes of sexual assault so just fair warning to you. It's really good though if you're into that sort of movie. Enjoy your run!

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Me too @Jynx

Had a ct scan this morning for his kidneys

Then we went and did a time lapse with our cameras which was messed up by a unwanted person in the time lapse

Then Mr shaz went to put a new toilet paper holder in the toilet and now wè have a hole in the wall

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@Jynx , I feel like I am being part rejected by his actions

I amm really trying hard not to think that way , but it is very hard

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Quite a rollercoaster all round for you and mr shaz at the moment hey @Shaz51. I hope you both get some reprieve soooooon 💜

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Me too my awesome @Jynx

Hope you are going OK 👍

After the doctors appointment next week and once the new meds kick in , I think it will be better , fingers crossed 🤞

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