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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Hey @Birdofparadise8 hows your day?

trying to keep myself

read back that you didn’t have any luck with community mh. In all honesty, it doesn’t surprise me. They are extremely difficult to get into. I was referred to them many many times after hospital admissions. I always had a follow up with them once discharged. And on many occasions I begged to be seen by them regularly but they always came back with a no. It wasn’t until like maybe my 5th admission in a short period of time that they finally took me on.

it really sucks that they aren’t available for more people. And that when you can’t access them the other options are either not great or really expensive with excessive wait times.

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Hi @Birdofparadise8, I sort of wish I didn’t have a bipolar brain, can I ever hope this will go away, because I don’t like it and don’t want to be stuck with it. It’s why I have a bad migraine right now too. I swear I don’t even understand my mood today.

Anyways, how are you?

Hi @Bow, I hope you are well 💖

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Hi @Bow

I’m just at work it’s been very busy today. I finish at 7:30 so I’m happy about that.

I know it’s so hard. I don’t get it really but oh well. They said I can get my GP to re refer if things get worse.

My old pdoc still hasn’t sent the referral to the private psych place which is really annoying I’ve call four times and they keep saying they’ve sent it but the clinic hasn’t received it. He doesn’t come back till the 11th of sep so that’s going to put me even further behind apparently the wait is at least six months. Which I really can’t wait that long. Also the fees I was there the other day for my clinical trial and I heard a few people and they were paying over $500 and I don’t have that kind of money nor does my parents.

It's annoying because when I went to community they said something about me not paying them which obviously is true as they are public so I don’t know why he mentioned that. He also said because I have private health that’s why I should see a private pdoc, but they don’t even cover that you get maybe $100 back from Medicare but that’s it.

I think if I haven’t heard from the clinic and things are still not going to good. I’ll try and get another referral and insist on staying. The hard thing for me is because I’m studying and working they think I’m okay and that I’m functioning. I don’t think that is very fair just because I’m doing those things doesn’t make me any less sick than someone else that is struggling just as much as I am.

How have you been. I hope things haven’t been too hard for you. How’s your daughter?

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Hi @creative_writer

Sorry you’re feeling stuck that must be really hard. I know I don’t have bipolar but I don’t understand that feeling with my depression will it ever go away or will I be stuck with it.

Is your migraine really bad?

Im pushing along happy to be going home soon.

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Hey @tyme

How are you?

Are you on tonight?

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sounds tough for you at the moment @Birdofparadise8

i hope that work went well for you though or there was a positive thing in you day

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@Birdofparadise8, I hope you are doing okay 💖🫂

Migraine could be worse, but it’s not exactly great either

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Are you okay @Birdofparadise8 ?

I haven't seen you in ages! I was getting concerned.

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Just a lot going on at the moment also uni on top of it is making it hard.

I have so much due and I just don’t know how I’m going to get it all done @outlander

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That sucks @creative_writer

Pushing though I guess a lot on my mind. I’m just getting home now.

Sorry to worry you @tyme

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