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I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.
Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.
I have to miss uni for my comm MH appointment I got in very quick. Then I see my GP and also I have an appointment for the clinical trial to increase the medication and I’ll have a chat with my regular at KHL. Very appointment heavy.
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
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Hahaha that would be so funny @Jynx
yeah out of my control the outcome though
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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no nsw @Birdofparadise8
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
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Ah okay sorry @outlander
So many people to remember where everyone is.
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JynxModerator
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@creative_writer wrote:
@Jynx, cats count as babies at the end of the day. I was reading they even have similar attachment styles as infants do with their parents. They probably look at you as a parent
I read somewhere recently that as cats evolved alongside humans, they learned to mimic the sound of a crying baby in order to get our attention. So cool!
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@Birdofparadise8, I hope the appointments are productive. I’ll continue with uni stuff, gotta get assignment out of the way.
@Jynx, that sounds about right. Cats are pretty intelligent animals. Cats do strange things to get our attention, the neighbours cat was meowing and rolling around on the road, and even jumped onto a tree lol. The mischievous cat knew she was getting a lot of attention for her naughty behaviour. Once, we found her on the roof, meowing after we came home. She’s not even ours but thinks she owns us 😆
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
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Thank you @creative_writer
I have two assignments I need to get done as well.
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JynxModerator
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They really are @creative_writer!! So mischievous. Trixie my older cat will sometimes sit in my bathroom sink and meow when she wants attention - I think because it gets more resonance and echoes a bit, really giving it some oomph! Ahh I just love cats soooo much! Do you have any kitties?
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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All the best @Birdofparadise8
@Jynx, cats are adorable and funny. We have been thinking about it for a long time, just need to sort out living arrangements, particularly since kittens can be very naughty. You could probably argue the neighbour’s cat is half ours now, she just casually loafs in our backyard. She thinks she owns our house too and once had to be pushed out because she managed to get into our home, lol. She gets territorial if another cat comes. Her house is just next door so she comes and goes throughout the day
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