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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Yes if you don’t mind @Former-Member

I’ve tried to go onto it but it says a counselor is unavailable.

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I'm sorry the chat didn't work! Have you ever called @Birdofparadise8?

If you prefer a chat function, looks like Beyond Blues is online tonight ❤️

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I would call but it’s hard when I live with my parents @Former-Member

I have used them before, but they are pretty useless they just tell me to do eg. have a hot drink or read my book and it will magically make me better.

I do really like Kids Helpline though I find them helpful and it’s nice to have the same counselor to talk to each week.

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oh bummer - so sorry that's happened. Well, I'm glad that the SANE chat has been helpful.

I hear that about not wanting to speak on the phone because of a living situation. There are a few people like that.

Well, we're here to chat @Birdofparadise8 ❤️ And if not me, another moderator will be on at 10

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Okay thank you @Former-Member

I had work today that was alright it’s just hard once I get home. I find all my emotions surface and just can’t cope with them especially when I’m feel very sad and all the thought keep running through my head.

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It's sounds like it's really difficult to manage ❤️ I've had similar experiences at different points.

What kind of strategies have you tried before?

For me, if I don't have much energy, I just try to distract myself for a little while. But If I'm feeling up for a little more, I try to find another outlet for the racing thoughts or feelings like sadness.

I'm gunna wrap soon, but I know others are here ❤️

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I have numerous strategies like reading, watching tv, going for a walk, progressive muscle relaxation, meditation, 5 senses and probably some more I can’t remember.

Sometimes I just can’t be bothered to try them when I’m feel overwhelmed though.

Yeah all good @Former-Member I hope you have a good rest of your night.

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I’m about to go to bed as I’ve had to substitute medications and this one puts me to sleep.

But have you ever tried white noise? @Birdofparadise8. I’ve got a little one with different noises. I like the sound of rain or thunder. I go to bed and listen to it. Sometimes it can block out thoughts?

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No I haven’t @Captain24, but I do try and do a meditation each night and that usually puts me to sleep plus my sleeping medication that’s doesn’t seem to be working as much.

Have a good sleep.

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Morning @Captain24 @Shaz51 @creative_writer @tyme @Eve7 @Former-Member @Jynx

How is everyone going today I hope you all have a great day.

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