Psychologist

Yes this kind of boundary can certainly raise a lot of spiraling questions. Is there something you can do right now as a distraction??

Do you like games?? We could play 20 questions?? @Birdofparadise8

I'm just having dinner so we can do 20 question after that sounds fun. I'm having better chicken what are you having? @Former-Member

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@Birdofparadise8 wrote:

But if she is afraid of losing me why shut me out like I'm kind of spiraling myself now with what to think. @tyme

I'll just have to work something out I guess.

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@Birdofparadise8 - she may be shutting you out because she can bear to hear how challenging things are.

Have you heard of the 'avoidant' personality? I was very much that way inclined...it's taken a lot of therapy and work to get me to a stage where I can face learn to face some of the things that challenge me. Trust me, it's not an easy thing.

Kindest, tyme

Tell me about 20 questions @Birdofparadise8 @Former-Member . I have a vague idea, but I want to make sure we are on the same wavelength

Just ordered a kebab.... I don't usually do that kind of thing but was feeling lazy, tired and starving. See you after dinner!!

@Birdofparadise8

Yeah I guess. No I haven't heard of avoidant personality could you explain a bit more please.

@tyme

That sounds nice. To be honest I'm not sure don't we just like ask each other questions or something. @Former-Member @tyme

Yes @tyme and @Birdofparadise8 , I would like to know more about avoidant personality too!!

And 20 questions is.....

Someone thinks of an object/thing and the others are allowed to ask 20 yes or no questions to guess what it is. For example

Is it a man made object? No

Is it an animal? Yes

Is it bigger than a microwave? No

Does it have feathers? No

Does it have scales? No

Is it a mouse? Yes

You can go first if you want @Birdofparadise8 ?

Ok sure I have something in mind so shoot your questions at me. @Former-Member

@tyme

Ok....

Can it be eaten? @Birdofparadise8 @tyme