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MDTSenior Contributor
So its over between my partner and I
Its really hurting me and I guess it's because I had hopes.
I feel so stupid
I wish it ended better but is there any way it can end well?
It all seems like it was for nothing
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TABSenior Contributor
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MDTSenior Contributor
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Very sorry to hear, @MDT 😞
Please take care of yourself at this time...
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Unknown userMember
Hey @MDT not really the relationship guru but I think in person would be best maybe go for a walk or something and just get whatever it is in your chest out in a calm manner.
hope things work out for you and yeah let us know what happens.
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MDTSenior Contributor
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MDTSenior Contributor
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StuFSenior Contributor
Hey @MDT
I just replied to you on another thread before I saw this one.
Sorry it is tough (kinda goes with the territory I guess)
But good plan to meet up
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MDTSenior Contributor
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BPDSurvivorSenior Contributor
How are you @MDT ?
I agree seeing and speaking to her in person is a better alternative.
Also, would 'being friends' be an option? Not being with someone doesn't mean you have to hate them or something.
I'm not relationship expert by all means - I'm a borderline after all 🙂 LOL
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