Hi @VernaMueller,
Hope you're staying safe and surviving.
I'm in a similar situation - with bipolar 1, never met anyone with it either and I have restarted meds for about a month but not really sure whether it's working. After a recent suicidal attempt, I have researched/read pretty much anything available about bipolar ranging from youtube, mental health organisation websites to academic research papers. I have spoken to my friend whose friend also has bipolar 1, apparently gone through psychotherapy, ECT and worked quite well. I'm not a health professional so it's probably best to consult with drs etc but if meds are not working that might be an option.
In terms of a support group, post-hospital, I have been getting help from a city council-run mental health organisation that has a peer support worker. Although, she has a different mental condition, I found it extremely valuable to have a conversation with her. Or depends on the day, (coz my condition goes up and down. You'll prob know haha) I'll check the thread here every now and then so we can chat : ) Hope this is helpful!