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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@Captain24 So sad to read you hate yourself and feel like a "complete failure" 😢

Someone who is so comapssionate to others is not a failure.

Sending hugs 🫂

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Yeah.. I am a failure @NatureLover.

@Melbcoffeesnob its better to chat over here than in that thread.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I think it’s best to go to bed

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@Captain24 wrote:

Yeah.. I am a failure @NatureLover.

So sorry you feel that way @Captain24 😢

Sending wishes for you...I hope your night shift last night went OK...or was it a day shift?

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’m leaving for a while. I just seem to cause concern and I’m constantly in a really bad place. I don’t want to be a bother to anyone or have you guys waste your time on me.

If I’m not back in a couple of weeks well it means I …..

@NatureLover. I hope your rent inspection goes well.

@Snowie I hope your holiday was the reset you needed.

@Bow i hope things get easier for you. You deserve it.


@Jynx @tyme @Melbcoffeesnob @amber22 Thanks

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BowSenior Contributor

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Hey dear @Captain24 im sorry things are tough at the moment and I understand the need to step away for a bit, but you never waste peoples time. And people feel concern cause they genuinely care.

please reach out for some support cause it sounds like you are needing some additional support at the moment.

Sitting here with ya

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tymeModerator

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Hey @Captain24 ,

I’m sorry to hear this is how you are feeling. I recognise it is so hard for you right now.

I just want to re-iterate that you are NOT a waste of time nor a waste of space. I read your mind is telling you these things.

We are hear for you.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Absolutely no support at all is harder than I thought. But it’s better for everyone else me leaving.

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RiverSealModerator

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Hey @Captain24 I hear that you are not in a good place right now! Please stay connected here on the Forums with the community where you are valued and respected. I will pop a few numbers down below for you to reach out to if you need a little extra support this evening:

Sane counsellors are available via phone, web chat or email from 10am to 8pm Monday to Friday (AEST/AEDT). 1800 187 263. Counselling

Lifeline: 13 11 14 or Lifeline Chat

Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 or Beyond Blue Webchat

1800 RESPECT: 1800 737 732, www.1800respect.org.au

Suicide call back service: 1300 659 467 or Online Counselling

Kids Helpline (up to ages 25): 1800 55 1800, http://kidshelpline.com.au/get-help/phone-counselling

If in immediate danger: 000 www.triplezero.gov.au/triple-zero/How-to-Call-000

Sitting with you this evening!

Take care

RiverSeal

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