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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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That is music to my ears @Captain24 . Good on you. You absolutely deserve it.

While things are going 'well', this is a good time to practice breathing skills, and positive talk skills - so when things do go a bit haywire, you would have had practice.

Have you continued to complete a mood diary? I remember discussing it, but I don't remember whether you started actually doing it. It'll be helpful to take it to your next pdoc appt.

tyme

PS you've also encouraged me 🙂

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So very proud of you @Captain24

💙💛💙

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I have a bipolar mood chart that I have to complete @tyme . It’s pretty basic so I am journaling so it’s more detailed for me to try and track what is happening and when and to see if I can find triggers.

Until you pointed it out I didn’t even realise the positive self talk I had today. It feels so good.. other than my elevated moods, today is probably the best I have felt.

Im glad I’ve encouraged you.. at least the mess that is my life is of help to someone else as well. Lol. Knowing I may have helped someone else even a little bit made my day. Thank you

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Thank you so much @Eve7

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Positive self talk can actually go a very long way @Captain24 . As I said, it's good to practise it as much as you can when you are well so that you are adept at it when you actually need it. I learnt this concept the hard way. I spent years telling my psychologist that skills 'didn't work', then one day, he turned and said, 'How often do you practice it?'

That's my learning 🙂

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I will practice now as I lay in bed and drift off to sleep. @tyme .

Thanks so much.

Hope you have a good night

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Any you'll find yourself smiling as you sleep @Captain24 .

Sweet dreams 🙂

Speak tomorrow!

tyme

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So happy to read that things are improving for you @Captain24 and the positive self talk is really great to see. I hope that continues for you. Well done 😊

It's a journey and you're doing all the right things.

Take care 💝

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How are you feeling now? I hope you are feeling better.

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Hi @Helpmeheal ,

So good to see you here 🙂

A little hint...if you want to tag someone to your message, you can type '@' in front of their name. That way, they will receive a notification.

Hi @Captain24 🙂

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