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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

Today is a new day! @tyme @Bow @Shaz51

I will start again. At the moment I feel really good. I have hope and feel like I’m moving forward.

Last night was another bump in the road but I feel that it has helped me to see the strength that I am building through this journey. I am pretty sore and that is a negative reminder but hopefully it will make me think twice next time.

I have light ahead and I will make it through. Just hoping that the bumps become smaller and less often. I know understand that they will still happen but I can see that I just need to put it behind me and keep trying to move forward.

My focus is on today here and now. Not worry about later.

At the moment I’m happy to be alive!

Thanks for your support

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BowSenior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

Glad that today is a better day @Captain24

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Thanks @Bow . Hope you are doing ok?

Feeling a little bit lonely right now and that no one cares. I’ve had a few phone calls about how awesome the family gathering was last night. It’s not their fault as they don’t know the struggle I’m going through right now. There was cousins there that I haven’t seen in years.

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BowSenior Contributor

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Oh that’s rough @Captain24 missing out on the family gathering and being told how good it was.
i struggle with loneliness too.

im ok. Done the lawns, done my hair- not completely happy with it though! And have done as much packing as I can.

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tymeModerator

Re: I can’t cope

Good Afternoon @Captain24 ,

What's happening for you today?

Seems this morning was better for you. What's changed since? What cuppa would you like?

tyme 🙂

Sitting with you. Finished your diamond painting yet?

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tymeModerator

Re: I can’t cope

It's important to reach out to talk to people at this time about how you are feeling @Captain24 .

I'd encourage you to reach out to

  • Lifeline on 13 11 14
  • beyondblue on 1300 224 636
  • Suicide Call Back Service on 1300 659 467

tyme

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BowSenior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

Hey @tyme hope you’ve had a good day so far?!

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

HI @tyme

My mornings are what is keeping me going. They are usually good but I’m tired of my afternoons and evenings being crap. Nothing has happened really it’s just a daily struggle and I hate it. I really can’t keep surviving like this. I can’t keep fighting every single night.

My diamond dot is nearly done. It’s the only thing that I do at the moment.

Im sorry I just don’t know what is wrong with me or how to fix it.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’m glad you are ok @Bow .

It feels good to get the lawns done. Mine takes 2.5hrs though.

Im sure your hair is fine but just think no one is going to know you anyway for a few weeks anyway! I always find packing for a big trip daunting and put it off to the last minute, so it’s good that you have done as much as you can

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tymeModerator

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Hi @Bow !

Great to see you 🙂 Missed you.

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